One quick way to create a lively discussion with a group of business owners is to ask whether or not to pay money for referrals. Business owners are well aware of the importance of referrals to their businesses. In 2009, John Jantsch, author of The Referral Engine, conducted a survey of several thousand small business owners. He found that 63.4 percent felt that over half their business came by way of referrals. Surprisingly, 79.9 percent of this group admitted that they had no system in place to generate referrals.

Informal word-of-mouth (WOM) communication about a product, a brand, an organization or a service often comes in the form of a referral. Referrals are motivated by intrinsic or extrinsic rewards. According to research conducted in the Journal of Business and Psychology on Motivations and Outcomes for Employee Referrals (2004), intrinsic motivation is defined by behavior ‘‘that is performed for its own sake rather than for the purpose of acquiring material or social rewards’’, while extrinsic motivation involves monetary rewards. People make intrinsic referrals as a means to “channel self-involvement and to enhance self-confirmation that they made a good choice”.
In his book, Predictably Irrational, Dan Ariely, conducts many experiments around the idea of social vs. market norms and offers insights on the different ways people are motivated. Ariely discusses these two worlds below:
As Margaret Clark, Judson Mills, and Alan Fiske suggested a long time ago, the answer is that we live simultaneously in two different worlds: One, where social norms prevail, and the other where market norms make the rules. The social norms include the friendly requests that people make of one another. Could you help me move this couch? Could you help me change this tire? Social norms are wrapped up in our social nature and our need for community. They are usually warm and fuzzy. Instant paybacks are not required: you may help move your neighbor’s couch, but this doesn’t mean he has to come right over and move yours. It’s like opening a door for someone: it provides pleasure for both of you, and reciprocity is not immediately required.
The second world, the one governed by market norms, is very different. There’s nothing warm and fuzzy about it. The exchanges are sharp-edged: wages, prices, rents, interest, and costs-and-benefits. Such market relationships are not necessarily evil or mean — in fact, they also include self-reliance, inventiveness, and individualism — but they do imply comparable benefits and prompt payments. When you are in the domain of market norms, you get what you pay for—that’s just the way it is. When we keep social norms and market norms on their separate paths, life hums along pretty well. When social and market norms collide, trouble sets in.
Understanding a customer’s referral motivation is difficult because it is different for each person. A great way to gain long-term dividends is to identify your most active referral sources and create referral messages and promotional campaigns that resonate with their motivations. Because motivation is often intrinsic, the only way to find out is to ask your customers.
For a business to be referral worthy, it must be trustworthy. Every time a customer makes a referral, they put their reputation on the line. They also believe that the same excellent experience you gave them will happen to their friends and family.
Jantsch describes two small business examples outlining the challenge when social norms overlap with market norms. The first is about a woman who had a positive experience with a business and over time became an excellent referral source. The company without consulting her, created a monetary incentive program. They sent her a letter saying they would pay her $10 for every referral. All she would need to do was to send them her entire contact list. She immediately stopped sending referrals because she got completely turned off. Her motivation for referrals was to share the positive experience with those in her network who may need the service.
In another example, Jantsch describes a remodeling contractor, who had a policy of paying $1,000 for each referral. When several customers were asked about their motivation, the contractor realized money was actually a deterrent to referring. Instead of money, customers wanted a carpenter for a day to fix small and nagging household projects that never seemed to get done. The customers felt they were too small to get anyone to fix them.
After they asked, it was easy for the contractor who created an inexpensive “Carpenter for a Day” referral program that struck a chord because it made customers look and feel great about referring. In fact, word-of-mouth about the perk spread just as fast as the remodeling service. Ultimately, talking to your customers often makes it easy to learn what motivates them.
The return on investment (ROI) for referrals is an important reason to get clear about what truly motivates your customers beyond monetary rewards. According the Tom Hopkins, author of Sales Prospecting for Dummies, your closing ratio for non-qualified leads is 10 percent versus a 60 percent close ratio with referred leads. Companies encourage employee referrals because they result in a lower cost per hire, a shorter recruitment cycle and a better fit with corporate culture. Finally, a study called Referral Programs and Customer Value, published in the Journal of Marketing (January 2011), showed that customers generated through referrals are the most profitable over the long-term. The study followed 10,000 customers at a bank and found that the average value of a referred customer is 16% higher compared with a non-referred customer with similar demographics and time of acquisition.
While it is crucial to understand customer motivation, it is just as important to invest in a CRM software. The ability to track and measure a few things like where a referrals comes from, referral frequency, referral persona and potential and actual revenue generated enables a business to make smart decisions as to where to invest.











